Ultimate Check List - (courtesy of former knottie AlaskanAlison and knottie numb3rMel)

Things to Book:
Ceremony Site (check!)
Wedding Coordinator  ()
Photographer (half check!)
Officiant ()
Florist (half check!)
Baker for Cupcakes (half check!) 
Ceremony Music ()
Hairstylist (check! )
Make-Up Artist (check! )
Manicure & Pedicure Appointments ( )
Rehearsal Dinner Venue ( )
Facial & Waxing for the Week before the Wedding ( )
Hair cut & highlight Week before Wedding ( )
Teeth Cleaning Week before Wedding ( )
 
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Honeymoon ( )
Plane Tickets ( )
AHR venue (half check!)
AHR caterer ()

AHR photographer (half check!)
AHR bakery ()
Travel Guest Luncheon ( )

Things to Order/Buy:
Wedding Dress ( )
Bridesmaid Dress ()
Undies ( )
Shoes ( )
Veil ()
My Jewelry ( )
Garter ( )
 
Hair flower or hair pin ()
Cake topper ( )
Ring Pillow  ( )


Bride’s Wedding Ring ( )
Groom's Wedding Ring ( ) 
Groom’s attire ( )
AHR Dress, shoes, jewelry ( )
Cake Serving Set ( )
Postcards for Guestbook ( ) 


Signature Frame for AHR Guestbook  ( )
Guestbook Pens ( )
Gifts – parents, photographer ( )
Invitation supplies ( )
Save the Dates (check!)
Postage ( )
AHR invites ( )
Pomanders for Flower Girls ( )
Personalized napkins ( )
 
OOT Bags/supplies ( )
Music for playlist ( )
Getting ready outfit ( )

Things to Make:
Invites ( )

AHR Invites ( )
Wedding Day Time-lines ( )
Wedding Day Emergency Bag ( )
Postcard  instructions ( )
Postcard packs ( )
Personal Use Folder w/Vendor & Travel info, Contacts, Reservations ( )
Luggage tags ( )
Guest Travel Brochure ( )
OOT welcome letter ( )
OOT time line ( )
OOT photoshare cards ( ) 

Things to Do:
Block Hotel Rooms for Guests ( )

Get Permit for Wedding ()
Tanning ( )
Teeth Whitening ( )
Write ceremony ( )
Register ( )
Decide on Reception menu ( )
Send Ring in to be Cleaned, Polished ( )
Pick a Hairstyle ( )
Get Engagement Photos Taken ( )
 
Schedule and Attend Dress Fittings ( )
Get Marriage License ( )
Schedule Hair & Make-Up Trials ( )
Write Thank-You Notes for Shower ( )
Make Music playlist ( )
Make List of Must-Take Pictures for Photographer ( )
Make List of Details for DOCs ( )
 
Confirm Wedding Night and Honeymoon Reservations ( ) 
Confirm Hair & Make-up appointments ( ) 

Make Sure to get Birth Certificates and SS Cards ( )
Change of Name Paperwork ( )
Give Wedding Day Directions, Schedule and Contact List to Parents, Bridal Party and Vendors ( )
Give Final Head-Count to Caterer and Rehearsal Dinner Venue ( )
Confirm Final Payment Amounts with Vendors ( )
Confirm Delivery Locations, Times and Final Arrangement with Florist ( )
Leave Honeymoon Itinerary with Parents ( )
Put Hold on Mail ( )
Arrange for house-sitting ( )


Get Marriage License  ()
Put Final Payments/Cash Tips in Marked Envelopes and Give to Designated Family Member to  distribute on Wedding Day ( )
Rehearse Ceremony ( )

Things to Send:
Wedding STDs (check!)
Wedding Invites ( )
AHR Invites ( )
Travel Guest Luncheon Invites ( )
Thank-You Notes for Shower ( )
Thank-You Notes for Wedding ( )
Thank-You Notes for AHR ( )